Sociological Musings of an Alien to Society

Women look for the sensitive side in men. Because of this, they see admission of sensitivity as a gimme-it destroys the ‘game’ women execute in finding a mate.
When a man admits he is sensitive the woman then fails to see any mystery in the man. This is because a woman is normally seeking out a mans sensitivity-it’s the part she connects with the most, if not the only thing they connect with in some cases. Giving it up is the same as a woman who will freely give sex to a man. There is no game there-not that men are purely seeking a sexual exploration of a woman as a game, but that it is a prime driving factor in deciding on who they wish to settle with or drive their efforts towards.
A man is told as a kid to power through things, to display his strength and drive. This sets up a facade that women cannot see because they are not part of the masculine culture. A boy grows over his life through his experiences as does a woman, but the defining experiences differ between the two-as they must for the procreation of the species and for each genders emotional growth and happiness.
A woman is attracted to this display, but they seek a man who can treat them with respect and dignity-not a purely sensitive being.
This is a prime driving factor in women-to find the sensitive side of the man they’re attracted to, and if they fail to find it (or other prime driving factors), they believe they can 'fix’ him. This is why when a woman is in a abusive relationship and she doesn’t want to leave, she’s attracted to him and anchored on the time and effort in finding his sensitive side or still believes she’s in the process of correcting his short comings.
This isn’t to say that sensitive men don’t exist that don’t need to display raw power and strength-but women are certainly attracted to that far more than an individual who wears his heart on his sleeve. Such a person displays little to no masculine traits in many cases.
A chronically depressed individual will not be able to attract a member of the opposite sex because it is a mental illness that destroys one’s ability to function. A person who is constantly a display of strong emotions is desired by neither sex.